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How To Get Over A Breakup?


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Breakups are not easy. No matter what the reason, a breakup is always a sour experience. It may take a long time to get over a breakup. However, there are certain things that you can do to heal your wounded heart. If you take some steps in the right direction, you will not only get over the breakup sooner but you will also become a stronger and a wiser person. Find out how to get over a breakup.

1. Accept reality

Accept the fact that he is not going to come back to you. No matter what you do, you cannot get him back. It may be really painful, but you will have to be strong. Don’t feel pity for yourself. You are a wonderful person and you deserve to be happy. So, work hard to bring the happiness back into your life.

2. Get rid of all the memories

Throw out all the things that remind you of him. Photographs, gifts, love letters, everything. You will feel a lot better when there is nothing that you see, reminds you of him.

3. Learn and move on

Life teaches you lessons in all possible ways. Learn something from your past relationship and move on. Forget about all the sacrifices that you made for him. It is your past and you cannot change it. You can only work towards making your future better.

4. Keep yourself occupied

Do all the things you always wanted to do, but never got the chance or time. Indulge yourself in shopping, go out clubbing, flirt a little, eat at your favorite restaurant and get a makeover done. Looking good will boost up your self-esteem. It will make you forget all your pain.

5. Avoid romance

Be it hanging around with friends who are in love, watching a romantic movie or listening to a romantic song; it will only bring back the memories that you are trying so hard to forget. Hence, avoid all this.

6. Meet your friends

Look at the other side of the situation. You are a free bird now. You can now find time to meet all your friends. Spend lots of time with your friends, preferably singles. Go for movies, party and visit new places with your loved ones. There is more to life than dating. Whatever happens, don’t use alcohol or drugs as a mean to heal your broken heart. It will only worsen the situation.

7. Talk about it

Don’t be afraid to talk about your pain. However, make sure you do it in the company of trustworthy and understanding friends. As time passes, your wounds will heal. In due course, the bad memories of your past will literally vanish and the time will come when, even his thought won’t bother you.

8. Break all contacts with him

No matter how tempting it may seem, don’t try to call or contact him by any way. Don’t answer his calls or reply to his emails. Break all possible contacts with him. When it is over, it’s over. Talking to him will only make you feel worse.

9. Don’t get into a relationship immediately

It’s healthy to meet new people or even flirt a little. However, make sure you don’t get into a relationship for a while, till you are finally over your ex.

10. Don’t be afraid to fall in love again

Just because one person was not right for you, it does not mean the whole world is filled with such people. When you are finally over your past, don’t be afraid to fall in love again. Do not forget what you learnt from your past relationship. If true love knocks at your door, accept it with open arms.

Remember, not all relationships are meant to be. Many don’t get it right the first time. The fact that your relationship did not work means, that something better is waiting for you in the future. Be ready to accept your present and be optimistic about your future. Don’t let one bad relationship shake your belief in love.10 Things To Think About Before “I Do”

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